Whether you agree or not,reason being that when efforts are not made to ensure the relationship travels in the right direction ,then it goes in different directions and introduces all sort of unwanted things in the relationship.
Also, remember both parties are from different backgrounds and homes with different orientation about life.With both of them deciding to be together as one,its very natural for problems to arise.
Now,there s nothing wrong in all of these. Absolutely nothing!
Challenges strengthen the chords of a relationship and makes it sweeter when properly handled.
One thing that needs to be in place is to GET WISDOM.
Wisdom is the principal thing .
Wisdom to deal when a situation arises.
Wisdom to know your place and act accordingly.
Wisdom to tolerate and to decide, come what may, this relationship stands!
Also,you ll have to make up your mind to love your partner regardless of his /her shortcoming.
Ever heard the phrase:’Live and let Live’…??? It simply means to live your life and allow the other party to be free to live their lives as well, By being tolerant.
You didn’t create a soul in this world, or did you? So ,everyone is peculiar in their own way.
As smart as you may think you are, the other party also feels the same way.
Learn to appreciate each other and let love guide your every decision.
Just as the image above describes it, you don’t change the house just because the bulb in it burns out.
Its the same thing to separate the offence from the offender. When your spouse hurts you, separate the offence from the offender and focus on how to deal with the offence. If it was a wrong word spoken to you, then you start thinking how you can help your partner get better in the use of words, or if he always mismanages funds, beats you, or cheats on you, then you focus on how to get rid of these offences rather than throwing off the whole house.This would require the work of Patience.
And remember,challenges produces Patience in you.
You have to keep making CONSTANT EFFORT to ensure your relationship goes in the right direction.
You want to know things you can do to get rid of these bad habits you may be experiencing with your partner, then that’s a thought for another day.
Love your partner beyond his/her faults and focus on building an exceptional home.
There’s a lot more you can do. Stop thinking to quit!
We are approaching the end of this amazing week,I hope you have been making giant strides.
Have fun enjoying the benefits of today.
To your success.
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