Say It As It Is…….

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When dealing with your spouse, 

Never be afraid to be who you are with him/her. 

That is the one person you should be ‘vulnerable’ with, in the first place. There is no reason to be shy about anything whatsoever when you're with your spouse.

The intimate love relationship is something so beautiful, too beautiful than I can describe. 

God is so on point when He said “…and two shall become one…” 

I think that’s just the best way to put it. It is a bond tied for life, an infusion of souls, this thing God did, is just amazing. It’s a realm that should function just the way it was designed to be.

So, never be afraid to tell your partner whatever it is. Don’t be shy to be yourself around your partner. Don’t hold anything back. Say it as it is and be confident of your safety.

But if you find yourself always walking around on egg shell, and can’t be with your partner the way you really want, then it is an abnormal way of life. That wasn’t what God did; man formed that way and allowed the devil to tell him a lie.

An honest chat with your partner can turn that around for you two, but if that won’t work, then pray!

 Pray to the point you start seeing results.

The key to every lasting relationship is communication. 

Be so fond of each other that you get to gist about nothing! Laugh about everything. Never ever get to the point where you feel too old being this way. God designed this way to last for a life time!!!

I watched a movie sometime ago titled ‘something’s gotta give’.

It was a story of a full grown; old man who always flirts with girls. One day he met an older lady as well and as usual, never takes his relationships serious. The lady fell in love with him so bad that she confronted him one day expressing how much she loves him, crying and all that drama…the man could not believe and comprehend what she was saying. The lady got offended when she realized the man was acting really dumb. Smiles…..She left him and cried for many days, thinking about him and so on…after many years; the man realized he had never felt anything he had ever felt for this woman in his entire life. He knew it was love. He went searching for the woman after say 6 years or so….and eventually found her in Paris on her birthday. So many things happened but he got an opportunity to confess to the lady;He said: 63 years of my life, this is my first time of falling in love.(I paraphrased that line).They got married of course and lived in the most happy way.

I cried so much when I watched that movie because I realized a lot of people don’t even know what love is, how that they may never experience this beautiful feeling their entire life. And that taught me to cherish the life I have now, cherish my spouse and learn to savor every moment like it’s my last, to go all the way and do all I can to enjoy my relationship no matter what!

Your relationship with your spouse is special. Never treat it as common. Love is worth celebrating every day.

Never bottle up anything! Give your thoughts and feelings full expression.

Life is too short to be unhappy for 60seconds.

Cheers!!!