Tell That Someone..............

Have you said these words to someone today?

Make it a point of duty to tell at least one person per day.

Someone needs to hear these words from you.It could be a child,a colleague,a stranger,a friend,your spouse,parents,enemy(that's if you got one)smiles....

Good words like this means more than anything else in the world to some people.its not always about giving the most expensive gifts.It could just be about saying these words as often as possible to that person you may be trying to get it right with.

Good words work like magic.

Spice up your relationships with the right words of love and get ready for the impact.

There is NOTHING,There is NO ONE that can stand against the power of beautiful words like this. 

And one more thing,you dont say these words only when you feel like saying it,Make a decision to say it ALL THE TIME if you want to see the fruits it can produce.

Say it regardless of how you feel and try to mean it.When someone offends you,rather than respond in anger and hurtful words,say:You re the Best, and i Love you..smiles...i know what you re thinking right now..(laughs)...Truth is, if you set your mind for a change ,you can achieve it.

We need to make our world a better place,and that Change starts with you!

Take Great Care Of You.

Enjoy Your Day

Much Love

Love in dark places.

Allow me start by informing you that desperate  people look  for love in the wrong places.

It may surprise you to know that Love is not where you're hoping to find it at times as Love is not in the abundance of material things you possess,
Love is not paid for neither is Love based on assumption.

Love is in you!!!

Give it expression and watch what it attracts to you. Love expressed from within you is a magnetic force that creates or finds its  match .

For what reason would you be going everywhere, bothering yourself over what Is already available in you?

A piece of advice: Stop the search and look inwards.

Love is a powerful force that works all the time.

That guy or lady you have been looking for is right inside you.
Create a picture of him or her with the attributes you 'd like to have alongside and ‎go about your day to day business as usual

Never fret to discard the physical appearances that don't match the picture of whom you ve created within you.

For some, it may take a few days,a month,a year, or years to find that one . It All depends on how much you've mastered the art of this great principle, and your Timing of course.
But surely, you will find.

Eject and destroy any contrary opinion or idea that you may have nurtured over the years.
That idea may be the reason you re still single.

Ideas like : you don't deserve anything good, No good guy can love you because you've been on the wrong path most of your life or that you have been told you will never be married.

None of this is true.
None of these thoughts have the power to keep you single for the rest of your life except you believe it.

Don't keep yourself down.
Eject those thoughts and believe the right things. Believe you have the best man or woman for you.
Change your thinking and start seeing the right pictures.

Don't go about looking for love in all the dark places as more of disappointment is what you'll keep getting.

Love is right where you are,once you change your focus lens,you'd be amazed at what you see.

Make the decision now to focus on the right things life has to offer and enjoy all you can.

I am sure it's been a restful weekend.
Here s wishing you a great week ahead.
I Love you

Cheers.

The Power Of Speaking The Right Words...

Imagine words like crops we sow into the ground that germinate, now, whether it was sown while you were happy, sad or angry,as long as it's in the ground,it grows.

The point here is, your state of being has got nothing to do with the germination of the seed you sow into the ground.That is to say,the power of a seed is in itself regardless of its size.

This very simple seed illustration is the same with words.

Note: Words from our mouth are powerful, and when spoken rightly, they transform and affect anything and everything they are directed at. So, its important you
don’t ever underestimate the power of words you speak.

Same also,in our relationships,the use of right words can determine how far it goes. Make a decision to use consistent words irrespective of your state of your mind.

A quick reminder, Death and Life are features present in  words. If you choose to use inconsistent words due to your state of mind that is feelings of  sadness, anger, depression or happiness, then your relationship would suffer upward and downward movement and never grow in the right direction. But, if you are angry ,and yet you maintain the right word to your spouse,then things can only get better and better.

3 key words that should always be on your lips at all time are:

• I am sorry
• Thank you
• I Love you

Use them sufficiently and your home will be filled with love and happiness.

1 peter 3:10 says: “For he that will love life,and see good days,let him refrain his tongue from evil,and his lips that they speak no guile.

Use the power of words to change the state of your marriage,relationships and life as a whole.

Here's wishing you a fruitful and beautiful weekend.
Also feel free to send in your comments, as i'd love to read from you.

Enjoy your day.

To your success.

Domestic Violence;Not An Option!

How can we explain two people who met,fell in love and suddenly find themselves tagged in a case of domestic violence?

This is a serious issue worth paying attention to,believe me.!

As easy as getting into the right relationship is for some,it's quite unfortunate and not so easy for others.

Why???

Love is not the only important and necessary ingredient for a fulfilling and lasting relationship.

Just so you know, Love is more than a feeling, so if you get in to a relationship based on feelings, then be sure that relationship won't last.

Love is a decision. As a matter of fact, you can love anybody and everybody.

Have you ever noticed someone you just never liked at first glance, or someone you felt you could never like for no reason at all and suddenly you end up in the same office,with your desk not far from each other. You get to see each other everyday and almost immediately, you could see this someone for who he /she truly is and suddenly, you find yourself feeling differently about the person after all.
Do you even know you could end up marrying such person?

Making a decision to love someone is what we are commanded to do, not to follow our feelings...

So, ‎to make a decision on whom to marry,you need to seek wisdom,its not enough to be a relationship expert, or to feel all the vibes, you have to go on your knees to pray, so God can reveal what you need to know. Also, you need to seek counsel from people you regard highly, take for example your spiritual and earthly parents. The Bible  says, there's SAFETY in the multitude of counselors....

You have to be very careful when making your choice about whom to marry because once you are in,you are in!

It's also not enough to get married to the right person. Just as mentioned in the previous Article :Dont Quit Just Yet , it takes constant effort to ensure your relationship goes through the right direction.

Efforts like :

• Praying consistently
• Focus on doing your own part
• Loving your spouse regardless of any hurts 
• Consistent communication.

Keeping at these will not only save and preserve  your marriage ,but it will be an enjoyable journey all year long.

Note :As regards the point; giving in to prayer, I don't mean any kind of prayer, there's a book,i would love to recommend, How To Pray Effectively by Chris Oyakhilome D.Sc,D.D.

This book will teach you how to pray effectively and get results..maybe you've got a spouse with a terrible habit, a drunkard, etc...Remember we said, challenges works patience in you...
You've got to keep at it, it may take you days, or months, or years to get your desired results, but surely,you will get the result!

I know they say it takes two to work out a relationship perfectly, but in some cases where it only takes one, I know it may not be easy, but you've got to focus on these outlined points stated above.

Domestic violence is a dangerous and unexciting adventure for couples to experience so please be wise about your choices.

Enjoy this day and keep a smile on!.

To your success.






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Don’t Quit Just Yet.

Challenges are part of essentials for a good relationship!

 Whether you agree or not,reason being that when efforts are not made to ensure the relationship travels in the right direction ,then it goes in different directions and introduces all sort of unwanted things  in the relationship.

Also, remember both parties are from different backgrounds and homes with different orientation about life.With both of them deciding to be together as one,its very natural for problems to arise.

Now,there s nothing wrong in all of these. Absolutely nothing!

Challenges strengthen the chords of a relationship and makes it sweeter when properly handled.

One thing that needs to be in place is to GET WISDOM.

Wisdom is the principal thing .
Wisdom to deal when a situation arises.
Wisdom to know your place and act accordingly.
Wisdom to tolerate and to decide, come what may, this relationship stands!

Also,you ll have to make up your mind to love your partner regardless of his /her shortcoming.

Ever heard the phrase:’Live and let Live’…??? It simply means to live your life and allow the other party to be free to live their lives as well, By being tolerant.

You didn’t create a soul in this world, or did you? So ,everyone is peculiar in their own way.
As smart as you may think you are, the other party also feels the same way.
Learn to appreciate each other and let love guide your every decision.

Just as the image above describes it, you don’t change the house just because the bulb in it burns out.
Its the same thing to separate the offence from the offender. When your spouse hurts you, separate the offence from the offender and focus on how to deal with the offence. If it was a wrong word spoken to you, then you start thinking how you can help your partner get better in the use of words, or if he always mismanages funds, beats you, or cheats on you, then you focus on how to get rid of these offences rather than throwing off the whole house.This would require the work of  Patience.
And remember,challenges produces Patience in you.

You have to keep making CONSTANT EFFORT  to ensure your relationship goes in the right direction.

You want to know things you can do to get rid of these bad habits you may be experiencing with your partner, then that’s a thought for another day.

Love your partner beyond his/her faults and focus on building an exceptional home.
There’s a lot more you can do. Stop thinking to quit!

We are approaching the end of this amazing week,I hope you have been making giant strides.
Have fun enjoying the benefits of today.

To your success.




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Do You Know what MAY Has for you???

Its a new month with  fresh and beautiful opportunities.

Do you know you are the one to tell the month what it should deliver to you?Not the other way round of expecting the month to deliver something good to you.?

This month is different from the previous months and has in it what can transform your life to that higher realm you've always wanted.

Have you been hoping to get something spectacular all these while?
Do you know it can happen for you in this new month?Irrespective of the fact that you may have been planning,praying and hoping for years just to get this desire of yours...

Maybe you've been trying to get hooked up with a decent man of your dreams,do you seriously know that he can come for you this month,even today?

Do you know that you can get that car of your dreams in this month of May??

Or is it to have a better job ,live a better life,and have the attention for things that matters most,that can transform your life in a split second?

Do you know you can find a friend you haven't seen in 10 years, today?(just like i did yesterday)
Or have you been hoping to be a source of joy to your parents and family members,do you really know you can do something of significance today and change their perspective of you for life?
                                                   
Do you know that some people are in different parts of the world doing meaningful things to affect their worlds,riding the best cars,following the path God designed for their lives,making impact with all they do.?

Do you know there's so much you can do right now to save,improve your home,or to be a better spouse and a better parent to your kids?

Make up your mind right now,i am sure if you re following this line of thought carefully,you would have paused many times just to think of what you can do in the specific area i may have mentioned.

That's just how to use your mind.You can't have such thoughts often enough and not come up with anything that could make the difference.

Life is spiritual and does not consist of the things that you see with your physical eyes.

May has a lot of beautiful things for you just like i heard in the communion service i attended yesterday evening,where the Man of God,Pastor Chris Oyakhilome said anything you want can come to you freely in this month,that its a special month set aside for special blessings in your life.

He also mentioned you can get pregnant this month if you have been struggling to keep or have one.

There is no kidding to this,use this lovely insight to transform your whole life in a split second ,and thank me later.

Here's wishing you a super lovely May,and don't forget to share your testimonies via the comments section.

To your success.