Being Submissive....

This is quite an interesting topic I have always loved to communicate with the ladies. Finally, I got it all together….

Being submissive to your man should be every lady's  topmost priority as your desired home is built on absolutely nothing without possessing the submissive character.

It's so confusing when I hear and see how some women deal with their husbands. Most times, I'm  so quick to judge but then again,I remember some of them may not have been taught.

But you know,no excuse is good enough to be pardoned or exempted from the repercussions that 'not being submissive ' brings.

Your life and home is all you've got as a woman,why destroy it by being at loggerheads with your man?

Yes,the guy was wrong…he messed up big time….okay..,but, guess what?? its not your place to lash out at him rudely.A woman's place is the place of submission,without it,true beauty is lost.

Most women fail to understand that they got committed to a cause the day they married their man. It is an established fact that from that moment on, falling short of submissiveness is totally unacceptable..
Being submissive is an aspect a whole lot of us  have to focus on and obtain PhD degrees,especially in this modern world where we
have a lot of educated wives..smiles...

A submissive wife is one who makes a choice not to resist her husband’s will.  That is not to say that she cannot disagree with him or that she cannot express an opinion.

Indeed the submissive wife is, by definition, a strong woman who will usually have her own opinions which may differs to that of her husband.

Can she express them?
Of course she can, and indeed it might often be wrong for her not to express them since she is, after all, supposed to be her husband’s helper, not his slave or doormat.

Expressing her opinions and giving advice and suggestions will often be a valuable part of the help that she gives her husband.

Here s a typical picture of a submissive woman:

WAKING UP:

She wakes up before her family to get ready for the day ahead. She’ll get dressed first so her husband wakes up to an attractive, well-groomed wife who is calm and in control. She’ll then make sure the house is tidy and pack bags and lunches for her children and her husband.she prepares breakfast for her family so as they wake up they can eat a healthy and delicious meal to start the day.

At no time does she seem disorganized, rushed, or lose her temper.

Her husband’s clothes for the day are washed, ironed and hung up ready for him. After breakfast, just before he leaves for work, she leaves him with a kiss and a smile, telling him to have a great day.

MORNING:

Once her husband leaves for work and the children are at school,she uses  her morning to run errands vital to the smooth running of the family. She’ll drop off and pick up dry cleaning, grocery shop, attend to her own needs like hair and nails and have everything done by lunch time.she never  shops for the home  while her husband is at home with the children. She’ll make sure all errands are completed while he is at work so that when he gets home they spend that time together. He doesn’t need to help her with any errands or with any of the cooking and cleaning, unless he wants to. She runs the house smoothly and efficiently, leaving their time together as peaceful and as harmonious as possible.

AFTERNOON

After a quick lunch she spends the afternoon tidying the house and preparing for her family to return. The cleaning is done and dinner is started. If she does any work from home she will get that done in the afternoon as well.

If she works outside of home,then she makes every effort to get home before her husband  and get it all set before his return.

EARLY EVENING

Once her children return home, they are given snacks and asked to do homework. All of the children’s activities and homework are completed by the time her husband comes home so he can relax after a long day.

When her husband arrives home he walks into a clean house, receives a warm welcome from his wife who is happy to see him and spends some time relaxing while she finishes up dinner. During dinner she attends to all of her family’s needs and after dinner will clean up so her husband can spend time with their children.

EVENING

She organizes for the children to go to bed each evening. Her husband may wish to read them a bedtime story but she will dress them for bed, supervise baths and the brushing of teeth and ultimately tuck them in. The rest of the evening is spent with her husband. That time is spent talking, discussing issues and not fighting. The real skill of being a submissive wife is ensuring all communication with her husband is as happy and as calm as possible.

Disagreements are quickly deflated by her, not necessarily through giving in to her husband’s point of view but by being willing to do what makes him happy. She has to prioritize his happiness over her own and does this willingly, with no expectation from him.

BEDTIME

Sex is an experience of love and is shared as often as her husband desires. She is happy to have sex as often as he likes and will always do her best to make it an amazing experience. Sex with a submissive wife is pretty awesome and because their relationship is harmonious, her pleasure is just as important as his.

Each evening ends in a happy and fulfilled state with a kiss and the expression “I love you”.

So, what do you think it would be like to be a, submissive wife for just one day, if not a lifetime?

Build your home and enjoy the beauty attached to being a submissive wife.

Lovely weekend ahead Beautiful Ladies...
**Cheers.