Feeling Pressured?

Take a moment to Smile,

Please do that now, I m serious!

Don't you think everything gets easier with a simple smile?

Why are you so serious, too serious about life? Have you forgotten HE that keepeth thee, neither sleeps nor slumbers? Do you even know that?

You worry because you don't know enough to keep that smile fixed on your face. 

So, what do you do?

Get to know! 

Read something like this that's got the potential to get you out of a negative mood into a great mood.
Listen, Life is happening, Clock is ticking, Opportunities are rolling by...
Don't get caught up with feeling all the pressures of life because its got the potential to blind you from the reality of who you really, truly are, what you should be doing with your life and ofcourse enjoying every single moment of your life .

Is it your husband, wife, kids or current situation you are sick worried about? Do you think the lord doesn't know where he or she is mentally, spiritually, financially or as a total being? Or you think you are the only one aware?

God knows!

He told us by His Spirit that all things, ,not some things work together for good to those who love the lord after they have made war interceding on their knees for a changed situation in their lives.

Pressure destabilizes and shuts you down after it runs its full course in your life.

 I understand the struggle can be real, BUT, do not throw in the towel, be patient and things will turn out in your favour, just wait for it however long it takes.

There's no proof of a fight without these challenges ,so stay tough and win

Don't cower, and don't get swallowed up in the pressure.

WIN!!!
Cheers!

 

Pizza Hut Unique Story(1)

If you have ever ordered a takeaway pizza or eaten it in a restaurant or ever want to open a business along this line of story,then this will be very interesting to you.

Split into two types of restaurant-a family dining-style eatery and a fast food concept under the pizza Hut Express brand -the business is as well known for its creative crusts as it is for its pizzas.

Its certainly a household name today,but the idea for the business sprung from much more modest roots,sparked off by an article on pizza in a New York newspaper.

Brothers Dan and Frank Carney were both studying at college in Wichita,Kansas,USA in the 1950s when a friend suggested it would be a good idea to open a pizza parlour .He'd read an article in The New York Post on how the dough-based product was becoming popular on the east coast .Pizza was a rarity at the time and was certainly unheard of in the Kansas region but the enthusiastic brothers decided to give it a go,despite the fact that they didn't have a clue how to make pizza .

They were in part also spurred on by advice from their late father who had told Dan that 'if you ever have a choice ,be in business for yourself ,because you get the satisfaction that you know if you fail or you win,its yours and you don't have somebody over you who's not giving you good opportunities to succeed'.Dan had grown up working in the family grocery store but that was as close as he had come thus far to starting a business until this opportunity presented itself.

Keeping it in the family ,the brothers persuaded their mother to loan them $600(at the time).As they weren't even sure how to make a pizza,they did the next best thing and went in search of someone who did.This led to a partnership with John Bender,a service man who had worked in the pizza industry in Indiana.John came up with the recipe which was slightly modified by Dan and Frank to include 'a handful of this and a handful of that',and the rest of their funds were used to rent premises and buy second hand equipment to make pizzas.

Coming up with the business name was slightly easier .The building had a sign that only allowed for eight letters and a space -adamant that the word 'pizza' would be used ,the brothers had to come up with another word containing only three letters .Dan's wife suggested that the building looked like a hut and the business-and its iconic name -took shape!

Lessons Learnt:

• Sometimes,all you need is to pay attention when someone keeps hitting you with an idea.
• The success of a business is independent of your knowledge of the craft or the business,as long as other key values are in place(.plus,you can learn if you choose,it sure has its added advantage.)
• If you've got a choice,Choose Starting a Business over Being Employed.
• Something in your past ,no matter how little,can be connected to your future
• They sought out an investor to assist with the vision they caught-their mom!.
• They went in search of and made partnership with someone who was good at making pizza.
• They also bought secondhand items just to cut cost and lets just say that's their way of starting small.
• Have supporters around you:People who are not afraid to help you with anything you may need for the business.

image source:paytm and tvnews4u.com
source:How They Started

The Ceremonial Husband Must Be Stopped!!!

These days, many women are married to their children and not their husbands. The bond that ought to exist between husbands and wives has been transferred to the children because the man is never around.

Many men are ceremonial husbands. They are just there. Their wives don’t feel their warmth, love and presence at home. These men just answer married men, but they are absent in their homes.

Many abandon their families for the love of tight vaginas and perky breasts. Others run around town with friends until it’s midnight before they crawl back home to snore away beside their hurting wives.

Even when these women try to initiate conversations, they are greeted with cold eyes, monotonous replies and more emotional disconnection that further cut their hearts to pieces.

Many Nigerian women are married in public, but are single mothers in private, because they are sharing homes with absentee husbands. These men just sleep, wake up, eat and go out.

Ceremonial husbands are always on the go. They are good at being absent at home. They can win awards for being absent husbands. There’s nothing their women enjoy, being married to them.

They don’t know what happens at home. They don’t know anything about their wives. They don’t know when she is happy or when she’s sad. They don’t know when she’s sick, or when she’s healthy. They don’t know when she’s having problems at work, or when she is promoted. They don’t know when her business is failing, or when she’s expanding.

These absentee husbands don’t know their women’s dress size, shoe size, not to talk of her bra and pant sizes. That one is out of it completely. They don’t even know when their women are crying under them during sex, because they don’t know she prefers cowgirl position or doggy position.

They will start scratching their heads when you ask them her favorite perfume. They can’t even remember the last time they took her out, or bought her something that made her break into smiles and intermittent prayers for them. And these men still look at themselves in the mirror, pluck their pubic hairs and claim they are married. You should hide yourself in shame if you fit into the above description.

You see why you won’t blame women who transfer all their love to their children. They do this, because they want to feel loved. They lack the love and attention their husbands are supposed to give them, but get it from their children.

This is why when I see a man who keeps whining about his wife focusing on their children, I laugh. I am tempted to ask him what he was doing before the woman got to the point of transferring her love to her children. You live in the same house with her, yet you didn’t notice she was gradually slipping away from you emotionally, until she started pouring all her love on her children.

Men, wake up. This is a very dangerous time to be absent from your marriage. If you think you cannot be replaced by good-looking, sexy and magical finger- guys who know how to thrill your women, think again. Things are happening.

Women who are married to visiting husbands are sad, lonely and feel abandoned. Some of them don’t know what to do to get their husband’s attention, while others have lost hope of having a normal marital relationship with their husbands.

Men who use work and business to stay away from their wives need to know that one of the quickest ways to destroy your marriage is to leave your wife alone. This means things like spending long hours at work and following it up by a beer or hangout with the guys.

It is worse when you get home, that you don’t engage your wife, the mother of your children in any conversation. You don’t know how her day went or what happened at home in your absence. Instead, you lose yourself in football matches, playing games and watching late night movies.

Many men also use their weekends to play away from home. You start complaining about the messy house, then leave to run errands, and then you don’t come back for several hours. You leave your wife alone again and you think you are doing the right thing. When it really gets down, will those people you spend so much time with outside your home stand with you? Just think about it.

Nigerian men, stop hurting your wives with your absence from home. One of the most miserable experiences for a wife is that feeling of isolation when her husband is never around. Yes, she has friends and a job or a business. Yes, she spends a lot of time running the kids around and partaking in activities outside of her husband. It’s not the same. Her desire is to spend time with you, the man she loves.

To be left alone by her husband causes deep heartache for women. When she feels abandoned by you, she attacks back with hurtful and disrespectful behavior. Her ability to verbally hurt you is her strong weapon, and she uses it out of fear in an effort to try to get your attention. Why should your wife be fighting for your attention? Why did you marry her then?

When a wife begins to nag because you never spend time at home, never hang out with her, and never engage with the kids, chances are she is feeling abandoned and isolated. When you stop spending time together, the emotional distance between you two grows quickly. That is not a healthy relationship, no matter how you want to explain being a ceremonial husband.

Husbands need to work on their marriages. It is not a woman’s duty alone to keep a marriage. And marrying a woman is not an avenue to do whatever you want, because you are a man. If you don’t see the need of being present in your marriage, then remain single. A woman is not a beast of burden, neither is she a robot who should keep taking your misbehavior.

Life is fun. Don’t make  it otherwise by being a ceremonial husband. Change your attitude and be physically present to enjoy your wife!.

Source:The Sun by Kate Halim‎

image: askideas.com

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Tips on Supporting Your Spouse..#1

Become your spouse's number one supporter:

The one who is always there supporting and fueling hopes and dreams.

Develop together and march confidently through the world as an army of two....

source:200 secrets of success

Attitude is a choice.

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Are you in a marriage relationship with someone you love so much but you can't quite say he loves you back as much?

How has this situation affected your outlook about life ?

Does this feeling make you wake up every morning ready to embrace your day?

It's not quite funny, right???

Interestingly,so many people allow their circumstances to dictate their attitudes.

There is no information reaching them that;

 Attitude is a choice!.

Scripture encourages us to Always put on a fresh new mental attitude.

See this:

"So here’s what I want you to do, God helping you: Take your everyday, ordinary life—your sleeping, eating, going-to-work, and walking-around life—and place it before God as an offering. Embracing what God does for you is the best thing you can do for him. Don’t become so well-adjusted to your culture that you fit into it without even thinking. Instead, fix your attention on God. You’ll be changed from the inside out. Readily recognize what he wants from you, and quickly respond to it. Unlike the culture around you, always dragging you down to its level of immaturity, God brings the best out of you, develops well-formed maturity in you." Romans 12:1-2 MSG .

See???.......

Irrespective of what the situation with your spouse may be, we are encouraged to choose to focus and place it before God as an offering.

Get excited about your everyday life. 

Negative thinking always makes the small stuff seem so much bigger,until you start living in constant worry and frustration. 

Remember, we all face different difficulties,obstacles that seem impossible to overcome. The difference between those who get stuck in them and the ones who rise above it is their Attitude!.

Make a list if you have to, so you can see clearly the good things in your life  that are worth celebrating and make a decision to maintain the right attitude irrespective of the situation.

The situation can only pass,if you maintain the right attitude.

Your spouse can love you much more than you could ever imagine and you could end up living happily ever after.

Smiles....

Cheers!!!

Say It As It Is…….

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When dealing with your spouse, 

Never be afraid to be who you are with him/her. 

That is the one person you should be ‘vulnerable’ with, in the first place. There is no reason to be shy about anything whatsoever when you're with your spouse.

The intimate love relationship is something so beautiful, too beautiful than I can describe. 

God is so on point when He said “…and two shall become one…” 

I think that’s just the best way to put it. It is a bond tied for life, an infusion of souls, this thing God did, is just amazing. It’s a realm that should function just the way it was designed to be.

So, never be afraid to tell your partner whatever it is. Don’t be shy to be yourself around your partner. Don’t hold anything back. Say it as it is and be confident of your safety.

But if you find yourself always walking around on egg shell, and can’t be with your partner the way you really want, then it is an abnormal way of life. That wasn’t what God did; man formed that way and allowed the devil to tell him a lie.

An honest chat with your partner can turn that around for you two, but if that won’t work, then pray!

 Pray to the point you start seeing results.

The key to every lasting relationship is communication. 

Be so fond of each other that you get to gist about nothing! Laugh about everything. Never ever get to the point where you feel too old being this way. God designed this way to last for a life time!!!

I watched a movie sometime ago titled ‘something’s gotta give’.

It was a story of a full grown; old man who always flirts with girls. One day he met an older lady as well and as usual, never takes his relationships serious. The lady fell in love with him so bad that she confronted him one day expressing how much she loves him, crying and all that drama…the man could not believe and comprehend what she was saying. The lady got offended when she realized the man was acting really dumb. Smiles…..She left him and cried for many days, thinking about him and so on…after many years; the man realized he had never felt anything he had ever felt for this woman in his entire life. He knew it was love. He went searching for the woman after say 6 years or so….and eventually found her in Paris on her birthday. So many things happened but he got an opportunity to confess to the lady;He said: 63 years of my life, this is my first time of falling in love.(I paraphrased that line).They got married of course and lived in the most happy way.

I cried so much when I watched that movie because I realized a lot of people don’t even know what love is, how that they may never experience this beautiful feeling their entire life. And that taught me to cherish the life I have now, cherish my spouse and learn to savor every moment like it’s my last, to go all the way and do all I can to enjoy my relationship no matter what!

Your relationship with your spouse is special. Never treat it as common. Love is worth celebrating every day.

Never bottle up anything! Give your thoughts and feelings full expression.

Life is too short to be unhappy for 60seconds.

Cheers!!!

Change....

Life is all about this simple but powerful word.

Change happens whether we realize it or not, it happens when we are unaware of its existence.

Change is EVERYTHING! Understanding the power of change will transform your life from victory to victory.

There was a time you weren’t as grown as this…

When you didn’t know the things you know now………

When you were fed and taught, but you are feeding yourself and teaching yourself now…..

When you were a young lady and now you are a married woman………

When being born again used to be an old fashioned way, but now you know being born again is the real deal….

Change happens all the time. 

Your attitude when change is going on is something I want to focus on at this moment.

A lot  of times we don’t like how change happens because we want our lives to go in a certain direction and it’s not happening, you always think life would be different if only you had this thing or if only things happened to you in a different way.

You have to stop that thought right away because it’s a trap that the devil uses to hinder you from enjoying God's best. The way you want your life to go may just not be the right way for you. As long as you have come to Jesus, and He is your Lord and Saviour, then, however the direction of your life goes, know and believe He is working it out for your good and He is in complete control.

You may have been praying and hoping to get married to a kind of man you have painted for yourself, probably a Tall, Dark & Handsome guy, and along the line ,someone you never thought you would be attracted to come knocking on your door, and then you cry asking God, why???????

Smiles…….

That may just be the person that would stay committed to you for the rest of your life!

Change is beautiful,Welcome it! Give room for it, Stay open and accept where God has you today.

It’s only a matter of time when everything comes together in full picture and you will understand why things have gone in the other direction.

Keep your faith alive and allow CHANGE!

Love you loads.

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This brand came into existence by the inspiration of the Holy Spirit few months ago and has since been rising in demands across various groups within the city. It is indeed a brand to fall in love with.


This is an exciting new business designed to meet the needs of our prospective clients and to ensure utmost satisfaction is achieved.
The quality of our product is better and achieves the desired position in the market.
We produce qualitative products with reasonable price. Also it’s a known fact that products of shirts is used everywhere, especially for official purposes, so market for our product is huge.
That is why we focus on having unique features and designs to continually lead and beat the cutthroat competition in the market.

We are efficient and stick with our client all the way to achieve the desired outlook.

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•  Churches
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                       You will be glad you did!!!!!!!!!

Hello Everyone...............

This is worth reflecting on...don't you think???

"What did i do for the other 8 months"?......This statement is very correct because you are expected to do something remarkable for each month and not expect the month to do something remarkable for you.

What are you waiting for?Go ahead and start anyhow,let the rest of the year be meaningful.

I love you, My heart is with you.

Cheers!

Love the Opportunity..

Hey guys....

Been a while........
Been so busy juggling lots of things....but i just got an inside information someone needs to read these thoughts:

Sometimes,when you walk up to an opportunity's door,Don't knock!Kick it down,smile and introduce yourself!


Somebody said you have to love what you do, but that's not necessarily true. What is true is that you have to love the opportunity.

The opportunity to build life, future, health, success and fortune. Knocking on someone's door may not be something you love to do, but you love the opportunity of what might be behind that door.

For example, a guy says, "I'm digging ditches. Should I love digging ditches?" The answer is, "No, you don't have to love digging ditches, but if it is your first entry onto the ladder of success, you say, 'I'm glad somebody gave me the opportunity to dig ditches and I'm going to do it so well, I won't be here long.'"

You can be inspired by having found something; even though you are making mistakes in the beginning and even though it is a little distasteful taking on a new discipline that you haven't learned before.

You don't have to love it, you just have to learn to appreciate whatever it may be, appreciate opportunity and appreciate the person who brought you the good news; that found you.

Appreciate the person who believed in you before you believed in yourself, appreciate the person who said, "Hey, if I can do it, you can do it."

If you will embrace the disciplines associated with the new opportunity you will soon find that your self-confidence starts to grow, that you go from being a skeptic to being a believer. And soon when you go out person to person, talking to people, you will find it to be the most thrilling opportunity in the world.

Every person you meet - what could it be? Unlimited! Maybe a friend for life. The next person could be an open door to retiring. The next person could be a colleague for years to come. It's big time stuff. And sometimes in the beginning when we are just getting started we don't always see how big it is.

So, before you are tempted to give up or get discouraged, remember all success is based on long term commitment, faith, discipline, attitude and a few stepping stones along the way. You might not like the stone you are on right now, but it's sure to be one of the stones that lead to great opportunities in the future.

I Love you

To Your Success.

Living A Life Of Gratitude......

Life is full of so many unkind things, unbearable situations, inconveniences and the likes.....but you know, you have to learn to live above any situation you may be facing.

Your marriage may not be going on well,you may be having a hard time trying to find or keep a man, you may not have enough to take care of your parents as expected, it may be lack of funds to execute a project you've been hoping to do, it may even be you got shelter problems...etc...

Can you try to live above these needs??
Can you just try to remain unperturbed, happy and steadfast in enjoying your life regardless of all these troubles??

Life is beautiful, and short.
Rapture can happen at any time...if that happens,all that you have ever enjoyed will be all that you have and can enjoy.

Live a life of Gratitude. Applaud yourself every time for the little things you pull off.
Applaud your spouse, parents ,friends,leaders,etc...
Never take anything or anyone for granted.

Always remember, no matter how uncomfortable you may feel regarding anything whatsoever in your life, some other person somewhere is praying to have that life.

I heard a story last week from a very dear sister, she said she was watching TV, and there was a man telling a story about his Mentor. He said they were both driving somewhere and suddenly his mentor got a call from someone telling him about a very bad situation going on at that hour, all the man could hear his mentor say was.."What???.....
His mentor kept saying that all through the conversation and he heard nothing from the other end of the phone.
When the conversation was over, he asked his mentor, what that was about...
His mentor said to him:"My Father's house is being burnt down ".On hearing this,the young man was very agitated and asked what they needed to do about the situation at that moment, but he got the shock of his life; His mentor was calm, totally peaceful and said, he needed to get some  grapes.
He drove to the mall,stepped out of the car, asked the young man if he cared to join in, and they got in for the grapes.
He wondered what was going on, but the mentor told him, there was nothing he could do at the moment but that God was in control.
The young man took that as a lesson never to forget.

So,you see??? Life will always happen, but you've got to learn to be in peace regardless of whatever happens.
Be happy,stay in peace, be thankful and you will be amazed at the blessings that will come your way when you re not looking.

There's strength and power in you.
Let nothing tell you otherwise.
You may feel like your life looks ordinary today, but you are writing the pages of history!
Hold unto these words and let them drive you to your destiny!
There's a beautiful life ahead of you, not worth giving up on.

Keep living, Be happy and Stay Happy!
I love you, Always.
Cheers.

Where Does Your Heart Stand??.............

Functions of your internal dialogue determines the  positioning of your heart.

This is a great key that affects how everything about you turns out to be. 

How do you explain a little girl who became an orphan at a tender age, grew up with her life holding little hope for significance,with no position, no power,who could merely be described as  one of many young girls in the city,but in possession of great values that set the course of her life around .

This is none other, but Amazing QUEEN ‎ESTHER

We all know her story.....

(Read the entire chapter in the Book of Esther of any living Bible if you don't know this story. )

Esther believed in herself and in her God and ‎that gave  her ACCESS. She had favor  with God and men.

She kept living her life, days grew into months,years and suddenly came a day,an opportunity showed up;The king of the city needed to pick a wife. 

This young lady joined the contest and after a few period of preparation, she became the Queen!

Thinking about her story makes me realize it's not about going  everywhere seeking to be noticed,It's about understanding the purpose of your existence and your need for wanting to be married, to have a child or whatever need you may have. 

These thoughts affect the positioning of your heart and that's why you need to be careful. 
You may wonder why no one has come to make any proposition in the last 2 years.....

Well,.....

Your heart may not be properly positioned concerning the subject matter.

Truth is Opportunity ALWAYS  show up when you are ready!!!

Now, take a good look at yourself and ask yourself:

Can I be married to a King someday if I take a cue from Queen Esther's story? 

(Don't necessarily mean the 'president of a nation 'or 'a Governor' even though it's inclusive in my description of a King..if you find a man of integrity whose heart is right with God, that's the  King you need ,sister!!)

We're all different,but there are principles  that have been set to produce exceptional results over and over again when put in good use. 

Esther became the Queen because of her heart  position.

She understood who she was and that she was a person of destiny! 

Even though we look the same, we are not all the same! 

This is as simple as it gets!Change from within by positioning your heart rightly and watch what happens. 

I write to every young lady and lad out there today,willing to get the best out of life...

Embrace the values that will set you aside for greatness .

An extra ordinary life doesn't just happen.... 
A fabulous relationship doesn't just happen....

Cultivate and exude the virtues that can attract a King, then you re on your way to setting your life on a course that it's destined to travel.

And to the King, watch out for these virtues. There' re ladies with these virtues, Look out for them; for it is the glory of God to conceal a matter ;the honor of a King to search it out. 
Go all out to search and then you can boldly say "I have found............"

Your best days are right ahead of you. 

Stop waiting, Act Now.

I wish you well.

Love, Always.

A Totally Different Ball Game.......

Do you know that dating rules and marriage rules are different?

You hear a lot of stories and you wonder if the people involved are aware that once you re married, the rules changes.

You may be reading this article and may be wondering what changes there are.

Well,lets take a look at this.......

Imagine a scenario whereby while dating your boyfriend,argument about something breaks out and then he hit you and kicks you out of the house.

Do you believe as a single lady, that may be your last of seeing that guy???Not just because there was an argument and he hit you, but because  he trampled on your value and deprived you of your rights to protect your  dignity as a woman.
You may not want to return to that kind of man,because you also feel that if he hit you once, he will do it again and again.
We are all different, every lady is not the same, some may not mind a few slaps here and there for the rest of their lives, while some do mind.
Its all about our choices.

On the other note, if this scenario plays out after being married to your prince charming, your decision is different. You have no option of disappearing whether for a day or a week or forever.
Your only option is to cry if you must and be submissive despite it.
You may be wrong if you put back a slap or  respond angrily with hurtful words or curse
You may be right if you get really upset, walk away angrily, lock yourself up for a few hours to cry,talk to God, sleep and wake to make  dinner if it's not past dinner time.

Why???

Because it's a totally different Ball Game!

Now, this example does not describe this as a chronic domestic violence case. The story is just as simple as it is.

You see?
To enjoy your marriage is a decision you make. Just the same way you decide to love.
God never promised no challenges when married,but He did state our roles.
Once each party is committed to fulfilling the role,then you re bound to have a heaven on earth experience staying married!

He said husbands love your wives: question is will a man who loves his wife hit her??The answer is NO.
And there are no conditions attached to this statement,He didn't say Love her when she's in order.
Same thing to wives;wives, submit to your husbands,even when the condition is not right or favorable, as long as this man becomes your husband, submit to his lordship.

That's why it's very important to watch and be careful when it's that time of your life to get married.You can't afford to get it wrong. If you do,that decision will affect you the rest of your life and you will have no one to blame for it.

Be ready to stick with and enjoy the consequences of your choice.
If you find your self in a situation whereby you re not enjoying your marriage, there's hope if you re willing to pay the price.

Influence can get your spouse back. Yes,influence!
Before influence comes to play, you have to know God and understand his motives and plans for marriage. You have to be right with God.
There can be no successful marriage without God.
Once you put all of that in place and have in you, His Love, then you're ready to get your spouse right.

Influence is simply the power to produce an effect without an apparent exertion.This simply means you can produce an effect, a change in the life of your spouse just by living your life.

Your wife does wrong ,but you still love her regardless and show it in your ways of talking to her, giving attention, buying her gifts, etc...
Your husband does wrong ,but you still remain submissive: you cook for him, take care of the home, pray for him, support him nonetheless.

Maintaining these positions for as long as it takes can not but produce the desired results. Love works all the time.

See??? Nothing is impossible.
Make up your mind to give your best on every count.
Understand and be ready to accept the fact that it's a totally different ball game when you're set to take the next step.

Here s wishing you the very  best.
Have an amazing day
Cheers.

It All Depends On Your Inner Reflection....

Many people don't realize they look like their inside.

Is there something about you,you don't like?? Check your inside. Check the thoughts you process every seconds...if you can change what you think about, then you can change how you look on the outside.

I am a very beautiful young lady...so beautiful that my husband finds me irresistible every second of our lives since we met.

So beautiful that I never go unnoticed everywhere I go. 

This is possible because this is exactly how I see myself on the inside.

But you know,there were days I didn't know how beautiful I was.
I got dressed without the consciousness of who I am,
I looked into the mirror but didn't see anything. 

This persisted because I had no information and no recognition of the abilities and the power that resided in me.

The proven reality that says the eyes without the mind sees nothing, is so true.

Only God,through His word,can make the mind get  functional appropriately.

Same approach applies to our relationships...

The beauty of your relationship is dependent on how you see it to be from within.Remember you attract what you think about the most.

What thought dominates your mind about your relationships?

How do you see your spouse?

How do you relate with your parents ?

How do you deal with your siblings??

How do you address people who are ahead of you?? 

Everything is a function of your inner processing. 

And to change whatever it is you may not like,you have to listen to what you re saying about yourself, or your relationships

Listen to the thoughts you're playing in your mind. It is extremely important you take note of your internal dialogue and make sure it is working for your benefit. 

Feel like a winner from within by thinking it,and act like a winner on the outside by speaking it.

You will be amazed at how this transforms your life and relationships. 

Beautiful weather in the city of Lagos. 

Enjoy your day people.

Cheers.

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Power of your influence....

Happy New Month of June people....

A beautiful story I read sometimes ago about a Mayor and his wife came to my mind and I thought to share it with the beautiful ladies paying attention. 

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Let me also apologize for being away for quite some time.Will work on making up for the lost time..smiles....

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The mindset that this short story gives, changes everything if properly understood and appropriated. 

The story is about a newly elected mayor of a town in Ohio. 
At the inaugural parade,as he and his wife rode down the main street in the motorcade,waving to the crowds of people gathered along the route,they passed a man who was calling out to the mayor' s wife.
The Mayor asked, "who is that man?"

She replied by saying that was her old boyfriend. 

The Mayor nodded his head and said :" Just think ; if you would have married him,you wouldn't be the mayor' s wife today"

She smiled and answered, 'No,if I would have married him,he would be the mayor today. '

What a story!!!

The question is how many ladies realize they got this much influence??

It is not about " looking for the rich, tall ,dark and handsome"......because the lesser is always  included in the greater.

When you realize the power of your influence,then you are set to create your world of happiness, joy and love. 

Don't allow time dictate the course of your life. You create your future in the course of time. 

All you need is inside you. You may never get what you re looking for if you keep looking around or hoping someday, someone will come around.
This is because what you re looking for is right where you are, right within you. 
Look inwards, change your perspective and you ll begin to see the things you never thought were around you. 

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For the single  ladies,you can still meet your man and be married before this year runs out. ‎

For the single guys,the latter paragraph is applicable to you too..Open your Mind to see.....She is right where you are!!!‎

It's a beautiful Monday filled with exciting benefits. Enjoy the most of it. 

Love you Always.

Cheers.‎

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