Self Esteem...

Healthy self esteem is essential for healthy relationships
From my personal experiences,I have seen that poor self esteem is the number one cause of failed relationships. it’s a supplement that can either make or mar your relationships. The truth is you can only let in as much love from the outside as you feel on the inside. If you truly don’t feel good about yourself you will never truly believe that someone else can love you and that keeps bringing about the feeling that you are unworthy of love.

Poor self esteem sabotages new relationships, and makes you feel like the whole world is coming to an end when a relationship crumbles or isn’t working as it should.

Check out what Toke Makinwa (award winning OAP)had to say about walking away from a non working relationship tied to self esteem :

”If someone does not know your worth, stop trying to explain it to them they will never get it. Doesn’t mean that they are bad people, you are just not their cup of tea and that’s Ok! Life is short, too short to spend it forcing things that are not meant to be. Remember that where the purpose of a thing is unknown, abuse is inevitable. Pick up your self esteem today, you’ve left it lying on the floor too long. Let go of those limitations. You can turn it around, you can start again. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve waited, don’t worry about how you will begin again. It is all in the mind. The day you decide you don’t want to feel the weight anymore is the beginning of a new life. A life free of waiting on someone to see your value. You are all you’ve got. Keep Rising..."

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Self esteem has got a lot to do with how you see yourself on the inside. If you think timid and shy, you would act accordingly and these can damage not only your relationships, also your influence in your world.

Get right information to read, listen to, and dwell on, as these habits have the potentials to erase this disease and keep everything around you living and active, even making the right kind of friends can also flush out negativity from your system.

Having high self esteem doesn’t guarantee a happy relationship though, but it does equip you with skills to identify what you want and realize you deserve to get it, and the strength to walk away from something that falls short of your expectations.

Please note: Beautiful relationships does exist and it’s worth the effort to work at getting the right one. Never ever believe it s not worth the try.

See you next time.

**Cheers.