Saturday, 30 April 2016

Building a Strong Foundation is necessary for an Exceptional,Long lasting Relationship

                                   
Does it ever cross your mind that having a solid foundation is key in any relationship?

I can go on and on about theories of how this can be achieved but, then again,there's one basic factor that must be considered in order to enjoy an exceptional relationship.

It is the God factor.

Having a proper understanding of who God is can transform anyone or any relationship.

Note: You cannot have a successful home or relationship without God's involvement as God is LOVE.

Now, as simple as this message appears, it's understanding can transform any home or individual.

Love has a whole lot of description,but considering a few from 1corinth 13:4-11 ,Love is kind and patient,covers a multitude of sin,keeps no record of wrongs,endures long ,does not insist on its own rights or its own ways,pays no attention to a suffered wrong and so on......

Take for example our dear Tiwa savage, in fairness, I think she should have gotten in her closet to meditate more on these thoughts about Love before coming out to say all that she said about her husband.

Being joined to her husband was a life contract she signed ,I mean i watched her utter those words online about her marriage being over and I cried for her.

Tiwa & Tee Billz
Yes, her husband said a whole lot of nasty things about her and made the whole situation a real mess  but, if she had come out to openly declare her love, not to mention offering her forgiveness regardless of all the pain and hurt in her heart,exalting him instead,  rather than exposing more of his shortcomings,wouldnt the world have seen her truly as a gifted and submissive woman full of wisdom ?or better still not come out at all??

we have to understand its not the world we owe our life or marriage, it is God.

We need to always look out for what God thinks and not what the world thinks or would think.

The very first and important question we need to ask ourselves before getting into any relationship is,

Why am i into this relationship?

She did right by acknowledging  her mistake and to  mention she knew all these would happen.
Now, the question i personally would have loved to ask is why did she marry him in the first place?

'Why am i in this relationship' I believe is a frequent  question you need to ask yourself over and over again.

Knowing the reason of a course better helps you in the journey ahead as you're guided to fulfill your purpose too. Proper understanding helps you to define your relationship and know it's essence.

Derailed foundation needs to be reset. God's involvement should be topmost of concern as it is required more than anything else for a solid and lasting relationship.

Prayer changes things and works wonders. I dont ever believe its the end yet until individuals or homes experiencing struggles DECIDE to win.

Tiwa and TeeBliz, My prayers are with you,I love you Guys,and I wish you two the best in your journey of love!
Your marriage is worth fighting for Tiwa,Dont give in to defeat,stop listening to what the world says and make God proud!You've got what it takes and i believe in you.

Hey guys, why don't we carefully learn from these stories and be guided. It's not everything that glitters that’s gold. So, choose wisely and let your decisions be on things that would last!

And do not forget to drop your comments.

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Enjoy your weekend

See you next time.

















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Thursday, 28 April 2016

Are you comparing your relationship with others?

Before you choose and decide to be with your partner,I believe you have your reasons,and those reasons are just quite peculiar to you.

Relationships with whomever you ve chosen to be with is a matter of Choice and it’s a beautiful thing.

At different stages  of our lives,these reasons differ,what may be good in the sight of A might be different in the sight of B. and for every relationships you end up in, it may or may not be right.

Comparing your relationship with some others is a sure way to getting back single again..,and as a married couple,it’s a sure way to destroy your relationship.

Contentment is another word that goes with this very subject.

Being content with your man; who he is,how he is,what he is,is the number one way to enjoy your relationship.

Your man may not eat right(he probably makes noise when chewing )and you probably don’t like it.but you sure have other things about him you love,and then you watch Mrs B ‘s man,eating in a very cultured manner and nicely and then you get back home wishing and complaining your man should eat like Mrs B’ s man.

Hmmm…..if you'd ask me, I'd say you re signing up for trouble. Especially with the way you re going about it. You've completely allowed the picture you saw to consume you. Now, instead of appreciating and loving your partner regardless,you are constructing a bridge between you two.

You could teach him in a subtle way and be patient with the results

Now,that's just one example out of a million .

Learn to appreciate your partner,Regardless.

Find a partner whom you can stick with despite his or her shortcomings and stick to your relationship .

No one is ever like you or your partner,and no one will ever be. So, appreciate what you ve got ,because no one else got it in the whole world. Take pride in being with this person and make the world jealous of the treasure in your hands.

Note: what works in the other relationship you're envying may not just work in yours. So, don’t look to compare as you really don’t need to. Everything you need to make your own relationship right is in both of you.

It’s a supercool  ‘weather for (married)two’ atmosphere in the city of lagos right now…smiles..

(except you re fasting or at work)*wink

Have fun People

To your success




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Wednesday, 27 April 2016

Nuggets:






Chapter 8: DEALING WITH NEGATIVE THOUGHTS AND EMOTIONS










  • If Satan wants you to displease God,He'll go after your joy.

  • You are a manifestor of God's righteousness,a revealer of His light,a dispenser of His goodness, Don't let Satan's character show itself through you.





Author: Chris Oyakhilome D.Sc.,D.D

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The Amazing App called INSTAGRAM

We all know what Instagram is about.
         For those who don't...

Instagram, is a phone based application,with the name formed from  the words Instant’ and ‘telegram’.

This application is integrated to the device’s camera and gallery and one can edit  images with the help of in-built templates and settings and post it on various other social media platforms including Facebook, Twitter etc‎

Its one of the exceptional digital inventions of all time.

‎Kevin Systrom is the co-founder of the latest social networking buzz ‘Instagram’. Like most of the children, he too was much interested in video games and even developed different levels while playing the game ‘Doom 2’.

He was born to Diane (Pels) and Douglas Systrom on 30th December, 1983, in Holliston, Massachusett

He pursued Bachelor of Science degree in management science and engineering, from the ‘Stanford University’. While at the university, he was associated with the ‘Sigma Nu fraternity’.
He was one among the twelve students selected by the university authorities to take part in the renowned ‘Mayfield Fellows Program’ where the students are provided with detailed knowledge and training in high-tech entrepreneurship.
His participation in the fellowship program provided him an opportunity to join the company called ‘Odeo’ as an intern.

‘Odeo’ is the same company which developed the social networking site ‘Twitter’.
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Eventually, he cultivated an affinity towards programming and even as a student, he progressed as a programmer. He was capable enough to be selected for the ‘Mayfield Fellows Program’ and this enhanced his skills related to technology.

 He did a bachelor’s degree in management science and engineering, and embarked on a career which was to impact the social networking activities in an enormous way. He worked with the tech-giant ‘Google’ and then shifted to a startup company called ‘Nextstop’. While working at Nextstop he came up with the idea of developing the new big thing in the world of internet.


Instagram became an entity in 2010 and debuted in January of 2011. A month later, it had one million users. On April 3, 2012, it was released for Android phones for their new OS, and it was downloaded more than one million times in less than a day. Later that month, in the second largest acquisition deal to date, Facebook agreed to purchase Instagram for approximately $1 billion. And that, as they say, is the definition of meteoric.

As part of the deal, Kevin Systrom’s net worth is now over $400 million. All from a simple photo-sharing app.

What the Internet can do when in the right hands is truly astonishing.

What then are you waiting for People?
‎Put your creativity power at work and create something.Use  your mind and keep at it.
It may take you a while to come up with something ,it really doesn't matter.
What matters, is what you bring to existence at the end of the day.

I wish you the Best.

Enjoy your day.







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Tuesday, 26 April 2016

Book Review: The Power Of Your Mind (8)

Nuggets:





Chapter 7 : PULLING DOWN STRONGHOLDS










  • Strongholds are mental walls of containment that prevent people from advancing in the things of God.




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Is It Okay To Have A Lady Chase After A Guy?

A Friend shared this post on Facebook this morning and i found it quite interesting and worth reading .

Indeed,Men are the hunters,born to pursue and chase after whatever they desire.

It is not the place of a woman to chase after a man.

ARE THERE WOMEN WHO CHASE AFTER MEN?

Of course there are!
But just like we read yesterday,its all about CHOICE.
Maybe we need to read yesterday's post again and again...

If you decide to chase after the man you want to marry as a lady,be ready to continue with the chase all through your lifetime.

Never to complain if he doesn't treat you like the queen that you truly are,be ready to endure a whole lot for the rest of your life.

I' d advice you quit the chase ladies,allow the man come after you.

Let him do his part,before you complement it with yours.
If he doesn't come after you like you desire,then,it might just be a sign this guy doesn't need you .
Pay attention Ladies and make a choice to do the RIGHT thing.

Feel Free to drop your comments and let's read what you think.

Its a beautiful Tuesday Morning.
Expect the best in it!


Monday, 25 April 2016

Making Choices......


Ever thought about Life as an environment with events filled with choices to make?

A lot of people are ignorant of the fact that the quality of life they live is dependant on the choices they make at different stages of their lives.

Note: No one is ever to be blamed for how your life turned out. Not your parents, family,siblings nor God the creator Himself.

Why??? You may wonder..., it's simply because everything you need to live an exceptional life has already been given to you.

Your choices got you where you are today. and where you will be tomorrow is all determined by the choice(s) you make.

For every choice you make,the consequences follows…

So before you make your choice,get adequate information ,seek counsel ,follow your well trained spirit and be sure it’s the right thing to do or the right way to go.

You hear this all the time,’if it feels good...,do it ! And maybe that influences your decision all the time,but truth is,not everything that feels good to do,is right.

Sometimes you may need to make a choice that doesn’t feel good but yet the right choice.

Understanding the power of choice can change your life for good and can also destroy your life.

Some decisions can take you 5years down the road,while some others can take you 10years ahead.
One sure way I make personal choices is that I always get to confirm from the word of God if such move aligns and is in sync with God's  plans for my life.
You may decide to follow suit but don't forget it all falls back to your choice.

Feel free to let me know how you make your choices in the comment section below as It really wouldn't hurt to let others learn from your own ways of making Choices...

See you guys tomorrow

Have a pleasant evening.









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Book Review: The Power Of Your Mind (7)

Nuggets:





Chapter 6 : THE POWER OF THOUGHTS











  • Thoughts are pictures of the mind that have constructive or destructive possibilities,energetic forces that have power with human emotions

  • You are a reflection of your thoughts.Your life is the outward manifestation of the inner workings of your mind

  • Every thought that makes you resent or despise people, or makes you work against the purposes of God is from the devil,not from you.


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Sunday, 24 April 2016

Be Careful with your mood...


A Bad Mood can destroy your relationship.
Be Careful how you choose your mood!

Keep a Lively one at all times...Or you simply dont say a bad word when you cant help the feeling.

Its been a sweet weekend.
Here's wishing you all a great week ahead!

**Cheers.





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Book Review: The Power Of Your Mind (6)

Nuggets:






Chapter 5:THE CARNAL MIND VS THE SPIRITUAL MIND










  • There are christians who wouldnt be interested in reading a book like this  or be after any other kind of spiritual pursuit.They 'd rather set their minds and attention on worldly things that are more appealing to the flesh.........


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Saturday, 23 April 2016

Book Review: The Power Of Your Mind (5)

Nuggets:




Chapter 4 :USE YOUR MIND RIGHT







  • One of the first things you must learn to do with your mind is to  focus it on the right thing.

  • When you focus your mind,it helps to direct your energies and bring them to bear on a particular thing.

  • Your spirit has the capacity to control your mind






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Friday, 22 April 2016

Book Review:The Power Of Your Mind (4)

Nuggets:




Chapter 3:THINK ON THESE THINGS








  • If someone says something to you that challenges God's word,Bar it from your mind!Don't try to accommodate it or reason it out

  • Fact and truth are two different things.Something may be a fact,but if it doesn't align with the word of God,it isn't truth.



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Saying The Words 'I am Sorry'....


Many relationships suffer chronically just because they lack the understanding of the use of the word..’I am sorry’.

To have an interesting relationship in life with your spouse, it is of great importance that both parties learn to use this word sufficiently.

Irrespective of who is right or wrong,apologizing over a wrong done to you is also an encouraging act.

As It eases a lot of pain and trouble in your relationship.

We've seen situations where couples refuse to speak to each other for months over an argument or, relatives who may have stopped talking to one other for years over an issue and even between parents and the children…the list is endless…

Why is this?

Simply because an individual lacks the understanding of the power of  apologizing.

Apologizing over a wrong you re guilty of, or a wrong done to you, just for the sake of peace doesn’t mean stupidity or weakness.

It shows strength and courage.it may not always be easy,but once you've mastered the art of apologizing,then you are a step ahead.

Remember,you need to enjoy your relationship at all times as life is too short to be unhappy. Master the words 'I am sorry' and say it as often as you can in every and any situation and you'll  find your life moving swiftly in the direction of peace and progress.

Note: There are various ways of saying 'I am sorry'... They include writing a note,sending a text,buying a gift and staying nice regardless.

Is there someone you need to apologize to right now?

Please Go ahead and don’t waste a second.

You'd  be better for it..

Have fun guys and be sure to let me know how you did yours.

            To your success.










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Thursday, 21 April 2016

Book Review: The Power Of Your Mind (3)

Nuggets:






Chapter 2: UNDERSTANDING THE MIND













  • The mind is an intangible,spiritual entity,and only God's word can give the best light on it.

  • The brain is neither the mind nor the soul;its a physical organ of the body,while the soul and mind are intangible

  • You are a reflection of your thoughts.Your life is the outward manifestation of the inner workings of your mind.



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Is your Partner your best friend?


Relationships spring forth every second for various reasons…


Now, obviously a good relationship ought to have friendship as the basis.


These days, you find a lady engaged to a guy(vice versa) , speaking about him in a manner that's unbecoming, thoughts of this makes me wonder what the relationship is all about.


From all indications, the relationship is already headed in a wrong direction  yet, they go ahead and get married and soon enough they start wondering what in the world has gone wrong with their marriage.

First of all, your partner is your friend, someone you wish to sit with and discuss anything and in some cases, everything!

It may surprise you to know that some couples are still shy to fart in the presence of their partner….laughs….(this is just an example, and it’s okay If you consider it as inappropriate in your own relationship).

In a successful relationship, where both parties have solid friendship and high level of understanding, that , shouldn't be any big deal.
In fact, it becomes fun as both parties laugh about the sound, and the smell.…As awkward as it might appear to some people, it’s just beautiful, if you ask me.

The truth is before your relationship heads for the alter. You have to be sure you've got peace and you’re so free with this guy. Be sure to note you two play about everything, that way, there wouldn’t be surprises when you finally live together as one.

Make your partner your best friend.

Introduce no third party in your relationships.

Express genuine emotions and trust your partner to be able to handle it.

     Otherwise, think twice before you go ahead.!!

Enjoy the rest of your day guys and don't forget to read more from this site.

Cheers!







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Wednesday, 20 April 2016

Book Review: The Power Of Your Mind (2)

Nuggets:


Chapter 1: RENEWING YOUR MIND:THE CONCEPT OF MIND MANAGEMENT










  • The way to transform ,improve,and upgrade your life is by renewing your mind.


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What Is Your life All About?


Our lives are all about something!

Very many all around the world, young and old are yet looking for what their lives are on about.They just don't know!


How can we live on without knowing what we need to do,give ,or take?
Ever heard of 'your world' in the world.?

Trust me, that's what you need to focus on.

Where you live, work, school, worship, and play is the world around you, and that's where you need to start from.

There's a definite reason you were born in the United States and not in Nigeria.
Have you ever thought about it?Or do you seriously think you were born by chance into your home where you are?

What drives you? What are you passionate about? Recognizing this, is a pointer to knowing what your life is on about.

There's no one not driven by anything! Whether positive or negative.

But I'd like to advice that you let your life be about good reports,excellent details and a worthy one worth emulating.

Success is quite easy if you ask me, as long as we re not in a hurry: Making haste is never an attribute of excellence or success in this light.

And allow me point out that success is not all about living in a glass house..it's way beyond that.Real success is about enjoying fulfillment,peace and joy in every stage of your life.whether as a cleaner,janitor,lawyer,doctor,nutritionist,stay-at-home mom,....anything at all.

All that you need is to stay faithful and true to yourself.
Your mind can attract the best things to you if you would only think the right thoughts about your life,business,relationships,etc

Sit down,take a minute to think about you and ask yourself:"WHAT IS MY LIFE ALL ABOUT?"
Like i said,you have to get an answer because everyone's life is on about something..

Figure it out.. 

Check the motives behind your decisions,Career,Relationships, Commitment to family members.
Then, from where you are,analyse if its a move toward the negative realm or positive.

Write down the excellent things you want your life to be all about.

Paste it somewhere,see it every morning and let your mind work with the things you have written down.
Be consistent with this exercise.
You will be simply amazed at how your life will begin to move towards the right direction,finding the right relationship and living the good life you have always hoped to enjoy.

Its a beautiful morning in the city of Lagos.
I want to believe its the same,where you are at the moment.

Relax,you re getting much closer than you think .quit the anxiety.okay?
see you next time people!











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Tuesday, 19 April 2016

Book Review: The Power Of Your Mind.

Nuggets:




Introduction:A God-Given Instrument




  • Walk in divine excellence and transform your world through the power of a RENEWED MIND

  • One reason many are still struggling to live the glorious life is their inability to appropiate to themselves what God has already made available to them



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Friends with Benefits


What exactly does this mean?

Urban Dictionary says:

     “Two friends who have a sexual relationship without being emotionally involved. Typically two good friends who have casual sex without a monogamous relationship or any kind of commitment”.

      “Friends by day,sex partners by night”

       “A healthy fun sexual relationship between two people ,until one falls for the other the friendship blows to pieces.And those two people find themselves worse off than they were before.”

       “Two friends with a very casual relationship.The benefits can be really good ,long flirty conversations;make out  sessions with no commitment;sex without commitment etc”

       “A physically involved relationship where both partners enjoy some comforts of ‘sitting on the fence’  between serious relationship and simple friendship..”

       “A man  and a woman who don’t enjoy commitment .like to fool around with one another because they find each other attractive…”..



All these definitions to describe ‘Friends with Benefits…Hmm...

The question is :Is there any dignity or pride in having  ‘Friends with Benefits’ kind of relationship?

Why would any one who truly wants a serious commitment opt for an option like this.?
From the definitions above,it’s a selfish,temporal  relationship development that heads no where,only for fleshly  gratification.

But you find a lot of this going on around with various reasons,from the definitions above,its all about friendship with sex and no commitment.

Too many disadvantage to this thing ;asides the obvious purpose stated by many,(sexual pleasure and the companionship/support) engaging in this relationship acts as a ‘placeholder’,i.e a temporal  relationship until something better comes along)or as a trial run(checking to see if you are compatible with the person before getting serious) which is all inappropriate,still.

Truth is vast majority of FWB lasts for a while and the sex fizzles out,friendship dies alongside ,for some,sex didn’t really work very well or one party falls in love and both/he/she decided this was a bad idea or one person starts a monogamous relationship with someone else.However it ends,it seems that once the erotic aspect has been exhausted,many don’t find it particularly hard to return to being just friends,the shared history,emotional  intimacy,mutual liking are all still there..and I think that as a major complication,as this may quite affect you when you finally decide to find love.

Don't get yourself caught up with the wrong habits while waiting for your love.Be true to yourself and be ready to enjoy the benefits it brings.

Have a nice day people.

The Coke side of Life (3)

Post war America was the perfect place for Coca-Cola to expand. People were embracing a carefree lifestyle and Coca-Cola’s advertising mirrored this desire, with images of loved up couples at the drive in and happy families driving round in shiny cars. Coca-Cola continued to be served at soda fountains, and was added to the menu in ice cream parlous.

By now, the company still had just one product, albeit an extraordinary successful one, and it began experimenting with new flavors, it introduced Fanta in the 1950s (which was originally concocted in wartime Germany), followed by sprite in 1961, TAB in 1963 and Fresca in 1966.the company acquired the minute maid company in 1960, branching out into juices .new lines of Coca-Cola were also rolled out, including bigger bottles and metal cans in 1960.

In 1971,Coca-Cola created a particularly special television advertisement ,that saw young people from all over the world gather on an hilltop in Italy to sing ;'I d like to buy the world a coke’.Coca-Cola had made its mark on the international market, and for a time was seen as an icon of unity ,in an era that had not yet grasped the consequences of globalization ,significantly,in 1978,the people's republic of China declared Coca-Cola company as the only company allowed to sell packaged cold drinks in China.

In 1981,Roberto C Goizueta became chairman of the board of directors and CEO of the Coca-Cola company. And decided to take the company forward with a strategy he called ‘intelligent risk taking’. This began with the introduction of diet coke on Independence Day 1982, the very first extension of the Coca-Cola trademark. Within two years, Diet coke had become the top low-calorie drink in the world. Coke might have been slow on the uptake, but quickly followed Diet coke’s inception with a range of alternatives, including caffeine-free coke and cherry coke.

Goizueta’s riskiest initiative began in 1985, when he released a new –tasting Coca-Cola, the first change in formula for 99 years. Why fix something that isn’t broken??

Well, it was breaking;Pepsi, had directly challenged coke’s success in the market place by conducting blind taste testing on the streets of America with many people opting for the sweeter Pepsi. This saw Pepsi overtake in supermarket sales.

‘New coke’ passed taste testers approval in extensive testing before launch, being preferred to Pepsi by most but didn’t succeed in the market place. People demanded their old coke back in an unprecedented expression of brand loyalty. Coca-Cola received over 40,000 pleading letters and their phone lines were continually blocked with customers desperate to have their old drink back again. The company listened, and after 79 days of new coke, they started supplying the original Coca-Cola again, labelled Coca-Cola Classic.

Its sales leapt up, reclaiming top spot, which it has never lost since. New coke was slowly discontinued, and the original recipe is still used today.

During the 1990s coke made its presence known in the sporting world, sponsoring the Olympic games ,FiFa World cup, Rugby World cup, and the National basketball  association. The company was selling one billion servings of its product every day.

What a remarkable progress!!!!

One of the last countries to have the pleasure of Coca-Cola’s presence was India, as India law forbade companies to trade if they withheld trade-secret information. Something Coca-Cola insisted upon to protect their formula.in 1993, India changed its laws regarding trademarks and coke went on sale.

In 1999, the Coca-Cola company purchased the soft drinks brands of Cadbury Schweppes plc. in various countries, including great Britain. This expanded the existing product range of beverages such as Coca-Cola, Diet coke, Cherry Coca-Cola, Fanta, Sprite, Lilt, and Five Alive to include the Schweppes range of drinks such as Dr pepper, Oasis, Kia-ora and Malvern water


Today, a high percentage of coca cola is sold outside the USA.And the company is known for exceptional innovations up till this time.

This brings us to the end of this success story.

I believe you have learnt some Strategies or gained spectacular insights on how to move your life and business to the next level.

I wish you the best and a fruitful day ahead.










Monday, 18 April 2016

Being friendly....

Just like the kids;simple,real and sincere.

The Holy bible teachings dictates specifically that we all should love our enemies as we love ourselves(Matt 5:43-44).

Now, in understanding these words ,only then can we agree that one attribute we must imbibe to attract the relationships we desire is :Being Friendly...

Meeting your life long partner or steps to discovering the hidden treasure in your quest may just  be embedded in this
simple act of friendliness..

Let me tell you a short story...

There was a time i needed to attend my best friend’s wedding, and she had sent  my fabric through this guy(a friend of hers).

It was a sunny day and this guy had called me to fix our meeting point.
Getting there, I called because I saw no sign of him

He picked up and told me he was in a car parked by the junction. The moment I saw him, introduction and exchange of pleasantries was quick as I moved to sit in his car without being asked.

With a smile on my face,“Please open up and let me in , for this sun is too hot” were my words as he smiled,and got the doors unlocked.

We got talking just at that point like we've met before. I got my fabric and, he offered to drop me off eventually.

We became good friends after that fateful day and his confession later to me was "my friendliness and the way I jumped into his car had  actually tripped him"…

Now, as simple as this story is, it has brought unimaginable happiness and joy to my life.

How? Am sure every reader already concluded I married this guy **Smiles....Actually No I didn't...

 This very guy introduced me to my husband.

Now Imagine if I was very formal and all ready to get what I came for (as I could barely stand the hotness of the sun) and probably left. He may have just been one of the very many people I have met in my entire life who wouldn’t have the opportunity to know me pretty well to the extent of recommending me as an asset his friend must keep! **wink

 I may still be wondering ,praying and hoping where my man would come from.

How interesting it is to see the very little things,become the solid rock of our lives.

If you ask me, I'll say...Pay attention to every tiny detail, most especially to being friendly.

Your lifelong partner may be that one sitting very close to you at the moment

.He may not look like the picture of the man in your head, but he may possess the qualities of the very man you’ve  got in your head.

Stay friendly while I catch y'all later with  more.

To your Happiness…**cheers🍸

The Coke side of life (2)

Even Olajumoke reps Coca-Cola in this modern time....Thumbs Up!
Candler had a vision for the brand ,to turn the now popular drink from a beverage into a business.

He disbanded the pharmaceutical arm of the company and partnered with his brothers john Candler and Permberton’s bookkeeper,Frank Robinson.

Together, they raised 100,000usd, then a very substantial sum ,to kick-start the business.



Candler had full control of the business in 1891, and within a year, he had increased the sale of Coca-Cola syrup tenfold in 1892. The company was incorporated and the Coca-Cola company was officially born!

They began a huge marketing campaign, using new advertising techniques.

To spread the word, he gave away coupons for free Coca-Cola  tasters in newspapers, and offered pharmacists two gallons of the syrup if they would agree to give away one gallon’s worth as free samples when people produced his coupon. He supplied the pharmacists with clocks, calendars, and scales all bearing the brand name.

The combination of this strongly branded approach and a drink which almost everybody loved, worked wonders and sales grew fast

Four years later, Candler had grown demand enough that he needed to build plants in Chicago, Dallas, and Los Angeles, and declared to his shareholders that Coca-Cola is now consumed in every state and territory in the united states

Today, it is sufficiently easy to launch a product nationally that it is easy to miss just what a major achievement this is. This was an era when it took days to travel across the country ,when there was no radio or television ,and so to be available in every state so quickly is quite phenomenal

Up until 1894, Coca-Cola was only sold by the glassful, until a Mississippi business man named Joseph Biederharn bottled Coca-Cola at his factory and sent a dozen to Candler.

Candler hated it and quickly dismissed it

In 1899, he overlooked this crucial development again when two lawyers approached him to secure the exclusive rights to bottle and sell the beverage in nearly all of USA for just one dollar. He didn’t bother to collect the one dollar because he was so sure the idea wouldn’t sell.


But this was the start of the unusual corporate structure which continues to this day.

The Coca-Cola company supplies syrup called concentrate to customers all over the world ,some of these customers are restaurants and bars which sell the drink by the glass, like the original  pharmacy retailers, while the other group of customers are bottling companies ,who add  carbonated water to the syrup in a factory and bottle it for sales in shops.

The lawyers began by opening bottling plants in Chattanooga and Atlanta, but soon realised that there was a better way for them to roll out bottled Coca-Cola across the country. They were joined by another ,and the trio split the USA into three territories, and began selling the bottling rights to local entrepreneurs; not only did this reduce the amount of capital the lawyers needed, as each local entrepreneur used his own money. The first sub licensed bottler began in 1900,and by 1909,there were 400 Coca-Cola bottling plants in the country.

By the turn of the century, Candler had increased Coca-Cola’s sales to 40 times their 1890 level ,and his continuing advertising campaign and his free samples had spread the name Coca-Cola across America.

The drink was first taken overseas by Candler’s son, Charles, and was first sold in England in 1900.

After seeing the success of the bottled drinks in the USA, the company decided to license out bottling rights to overseas territories itself.

The first international bottling plants began in 1908 in Canada, Cuba and Panama etc…Candler supported the new supplies of drinks with a thorough campaign to ensure the bright red logo was seen in shops and cafes everywhere.

Most of the companies granted the rights to bottle Coca-Cola in different countries were brewers. This worked well, as the brewers already had bottling plants and expertise, so it was relatively easy and quick for them to add the new drink to their range. The brewers also already had distribution through their own existing customer base ,which meant that Coca-Cola got access to shops ,bars and restaurants far faster than it would have done had it set up a brand-new business from scratch in a new country.

What a strategy!!!

The drink had become very well known, and was clearly successful, so inevitably a number of competitors appeared, though of course none knew the precise recipe for the drink, which was kept utterly secret.

The Coca-Cola company started to get concerned that it was too easy for customers to be given a different drink and mistakenly think that it was ‘The Real Thing’ which not only meant that Coca-Cola lost out on the sale, but also potentially that customers would not enjoy the rival drink as much and might not buy Coca-Cola the next time. Something needed to be done. They decided to come up with a distinctive bottle to ensure their product stood out.

It was in 1916,following a design contest, that the now-famous bottle was first used, designed by the Root Glass Company of Terre Haute, Indiana. The winning design was chosen for its attractive appearance, original design and because even in the dark, people could easily identify it as the genuine article.

After nearly three decades of turning the drink into a substantial and successful business,Candler eventually sold the business in 1919 to Ernest Woodruff. The company was reincorporated and grew so much in different countries. Woodruff’s mission was to go global, and his vision was to create a brand that was ‘in arms reach of desire’.

In all countries where Coca-Cola had sprung up, a creative, vibrant and culturally relevant advertising campaign followed.

A significant international move occurred in 1928,when Woodruff began the partnership with the Olympic games in Amsterdam. A thousand bottles of Coca-Cola accompanied the US team, and the drink was on sale in the Olympic stadium .vendors were adorned   with caps and coats emblazoned with the Coca-Cola logo, and the drink was also sold at surrounding cafes, restaurants, and shops

By the start of the Second World War, Coca-Cola was present in 44 countries. A marketing genius, Woodruff developed the company’s successful, but limited line, introducing the six-pack (making the drinks more transportable and encouraging people to buy in bulk)and the open –top cooler .Coca-Cola was available in vending machines from 1929 a

nd was advertised on the radio from 1990.in 1905,bottlers hired women to act  as door –to-door sales people for the drink ,with a target of 125 calls per day.

In a marketing scheme that was to have repercussions for little children everywhere, during Christmas 1931,Coca-Cola’s famous red Santa Claus made its debut, banishing the long –established and previously unchallenged green Santa into the mists of time.



Wow! Wow!!Wow!!!

This story simply inspires me .

How simple ideas knocked off existing ones and became top notch!

Every time I drink a bottle of coke, I just can’t get enough of it..And I keep wondering how it was made and how it keeps leading in the market, even at this time.

There’s still more to uncover…….

I just cant wait
To bring you the concluding part of this amazing story…

Take care and make sure to work your mind right.

You can be anything you want to be. Dont ever give up

Lovely day ahead.










Great Morning to you.


Sunday, 17 April 2016

Creative tips to show love…..



Where words are not enough to express how madly in love we have fallen for our partners,romantic gestures will do.

Note: These tips can be used by any married couple of course.

Truth is a great relationship doesn’t need expensive shows of affection all the time.

Romantic gestures goes a long way in making our partners feel special.

How?...............


  • Watch a romantic movie together once  or twice in a month and order all the rich takeout food you've been craving for the entire month.Switch off your phones ,cuddle up for the evening  and don’t move out of each other’s sight


  • On the days that you forget to kiss your wife goodbye,drive back home and give her an intimate kiss and a bear hug. ‘unless of course you are in a hurry' come back home immediately just to kiss your wife because you missed her already.


  • Give each other inexpensive well wrapped gifts every now and then.it could be chocolates,flowers,a game CD,or even a potted plant.


  • Give him a shave when he s lazy.help her brush her hair when she's in a hurry.


  • Take a picture of yourself wearing your partner’s clothes and set it with ‘the best partner in the world’


  •  Slip into bed naked and surprise your partner with your impromptu nudity.you could tie a little ribbon around your waist,or any strategic locations if you want it to be their gift for the night


  • Give your partner a foot massage when both of you are relaxing on the couch.Hold your partner's hand while humming  your partner’s favorite tune.Look for little ways to bring a smile on your partner s face


  • Help your partner prepare dinner and clean the dishes. Also think of something innovative to do while you are at it,like cooking while wearing nothing but aprons ..smiles…


So much tips can fit into this space ..but I ‘d love to read them from you guys,

So,share more ways so we can have some fun and kindly click the follow button just beside the 'About me'  either below or beside this post depending on the platform you re using.

Have a beautiful week ahead.

**cheers…

The Coke side of life....

Am sure everyone has sampled the coke side of life....

It's trademark and bright red logo can be seen all over the world. It wouldn’t be an exaggeration to say that Coca-Cola company is present in every country of the world as it has been declared the world’s most recognizable trademark and the most popular branded drink.

This amazing success story got invented by a pharmacist named John Permberton, who lived in Atlanta Georgia.

One afternoon in 1886, he was experimenting with combinations of ingredients to develop a new drink.he came up with a fragrant caramel-colored liquid which he took to a nearby pharmacy,where he added carbonated water. After testing it on customers,who all thought that was something quite special,the pharmacy started selling it as a medicine for five cents a glass.

Permberton  claimed that his new drink cured diseases including morphine addictions, headaches, dyspepsia and even impotence.

In the first year,he sold just nine glasses of coca cola in a day,which made him around 50 usd ,but it had cost him 70usd to create and advertise the drink.so he made a loss that way.

But he persevered, encouraged by the drink’s popularity with customers, convinced that he would eventually make something of it.

It was first named “Permberton’s French Wine of Cola".

The alcohol in the drink was quickly replaced by sugar to make it more appealing to drink.

It was renamed Coca-Cola by permberton’s bookkeeper,Frank Robinson.The name was derived from 2 key ingredients,from leaves-coca plant and the caffeine-rich kola nut and until 1905,the drink even contained traces of cocaine ,there for its medical effects.

Permberton’s company began to grow sales of its drink by getting other pharmacies to sell coca cola too.he ensured all the drug store that sold the drinks had the hand-painted Coca-Cola signs to help promote it.He persuaded six local business men to invest in the company to help him  finance this expansion.

Note:You see that Coca-Cola's famous advertising campaigns have their roots right at the beginning of  its history.

Later on,he placed the first newspaper adv
ert in ‘The Atlanta Journal’inviting people to try the new and popular 'soda fountain drink’

Question: What special drink have you discovered how to make?can you sell it to the world by starting with the closest people to you?

Sadly,Permberton died in 1888,and  so never saw his drink taken to the masses.The person to do this was Asa Griggs Candler,who bought the rights to the drink.It took candler, three years to secure rights to the business,as a very ill permberton had also sold rights to another business man ,and given exclusive rights to his son,which took some time to unravel….

Sorry guys but that will be all for now. Do Stay glued as I bring you the rest of it in my future post.

You are getting closer than you think......So , don't give up!

Happy Sunday.....

***Cheers

Saturday, 16 April 2016

The 'All Famous' Linda Ikeji (4)

Still Linda’s words….

“.... but back then, that was a lot of money to me...and I didn't have it. So for the next two weeks, I put myself on the road. I started chasing all the agencies owing me money. I ran up, down, to a hole, up a ladder and every where in between and finally raised the money which I paid back to the bank. It was an ordeal but it was finally over!Months later, I raised some more money to print my 5th edition (above). The content was finished but once again, I didn't have enough money to print it. I had only N200k and I needed N500k. I wasn't ready to give up on this dream. No way! But of course I wasn't going to go to a bank again..lesson learned there...lol. So instead I turned to the printers. I told them I had only N200k and would pay them the balance of N300k when the magazine was out. 
One printer agreed, took my money and half way into the job told me he couldn't go further without any more money. He basically held me to ransom. I pleaded and threatened for months and they wouldn't budge, wouldn't print without more money and one day I was like, 'you know what?' I give up! I'm done!' I told them to keep the money and the magazine, that I was done. I was just tired of it all. And that was the end of that dream.

Then I decided to face another business idea. I wanted to start a fashion, modeling and beauty school. This time I went to real banks (not community banks..lol). None, not even one looked at my business proposal. I was hoping to get N1million to start this business, but no bank was even willing to talk to me. After months of chasing this idea, looking for money etc, I also gave up on it and moved to the next thing!A few months later, I shut down my office (after my landlady increased my rent - I could not afford to pay it). I gave out some of my office equipment, sold some and packed the rest of my things and went home. I was going to continue operating my business from home.This was in 2010.

 I turned 30 that year and I remember having the worst day of my life - so far - on my 30th birthday. I'd lost my office, I'd given up on my magazine dream. My other businesses weren't doing well. I'd been hustling since I was 17 and I thought that by now I would have made it, but here I was at 30, losing it all (or so I thought) and starting all over again.But you see, in all of it, no matter how bad a day I had, no matter how tough it was, no matter the other dreams I gave up on, there was something I never stopped doing, I never stopped blogging. I would cry, wipe my tears, pick up my laptop and blog. If I didn't have internet at home, I would go to a cybercafe, pay for time and blog there. 
This work/passion ultimately changed my life.Sometime in 2012, when I'd started making money from blogging, a young lady talked to me about her struggles. She needed just N85k to start a nail and eye lash studio.

She had someone who was willing to give her space to operate from, but she needed money for other equipment needed for the business. She told me that N85k would change her life and that of her family. She wasn't even asking me for the money, she was just talking about her struggles and how hard it's been for her to raise capital. 

She mentioned she'd approached a bank for a loan and no bank was willing to give her. She said she didn't know how else she'd get the money but sugar daddy wasn't an option. I remember smiling and I made the decision right there and then to give her the money for her business.I remembered my life as a struggling entrepreneur, getting picked up by the Anti-Fraud Unit over N190k. I remembered how much help I needed and how little I got. How nobody could really help because they had their own issues and struggles. I remembered my dark days. I remembered all the people I begged to help me, to believe in me, to believe in my dreams. I remembered all the doors that were shut in my face. All the office receptions I sat in for hours. All the Nos I heard. All those who turned their backs. And how sometimes, I just wanted to give up. And I knew there were plenty girls like me out there, with ambition, with dreams, with fire burning in their soul...but who can't get far because they have no one to help, not just with money but also with words.

 And I made up my mind that day, that whenever I get to a position where I could help other young ladies with dreams and aspirations, I would help. Because I've been through it myself, I know how difficult it is to start or run a business in this country. That's why I want to focus on young ladies with dreams and good business ideas.So far, I've touched 15 lives...I hope in my lifetime, that I am able to touch thousands more. God willing. This is the project I've decided to take up. For as long as I remember my over 8-hour ordeal at the Special Fraud unit in Ikoyi, I will always be here to help a female entrepreneur - if not with money, then with advice and guidance.

I struggled o. I used to do an annual fashion show called Style Night. I did it from 2004 to 2010... I also tried to do a reality show called Nigeria's top model search with Linda Ikeji...no sponsor. I give up...lol. Catwalk with Linda TV show..no sponsor, I give up! LolIn 2010, I wrote an inspirational book titled 'It Takes You' to encourage people not to give up on their dreams. I spent a lot of money to get this published because being an author was one of my dreams and I was determined to realize that dream. I made it come through!...:-)I was still working on my dreams when companies started asking me for advert rates for my blog. I created my ad rate in early 2011 and my life hasn't been the same since.

 I left everything else and concentrated on this. Sandra is now the CEO of Blackdove...:-)...I plan to do all I can to help as many young women as I can. I'm using my money for now but I would eventually talk to rich people and corporate bodies to get involved and raise as much as it's possible as start-up capital for young female entrepreneurs. Too many unemployed individuals in this country. Let's start creating jobs instead of always looking for one. Plus I don't want anti-fraud people coming to knock on your door...lol.. or you turning to men. I hope all your dreams come true...and I hope no matter how tough it gets, you never give up."



The phase 2 of Linda’s women empowerment program 'I'd Rather Be Self Made' took place on Saturday March 12, 2016 at Surulere, Lagos,  and the turn-out was massive. There were more girls than Linda expected to see. The massive turn-out of the Nigerian bevy of ladies, goes to show that there are many ladies out there with ambition, vision, talent and determination to succeed. These ladies need the push and help to get to where they need to get to. Linda is currently doing the best she could to help and also get the rich people in our society to get involved in the project. She believes that people have to come together to help one another


Wow…what a Story to tell!!!.

Focus on whatever it is you are doing at the moment,it may not look like it will thrive,but don’t worry,keep at it and pay attention.

When you do,Growth is inevitable.

To your Happiness.


















Source:Nigerian Biography

Being Submissive....


This is quite an interesting topic I have always loved to communicate with the ladies. Finally, I got it all together….

Being submissive to your man should be every lady's  topmost priority as your desired home is built on absolutely nothing without possessing the submissive character.

It's so confusing when I hear and see how some women deal with their husbands. Most times, I'm  so quick to judge but then again,I remember some of them may not have been taught.

But you know,no excuse is good enough to be pardoned or exempted from the repercussions that 'not being submissive ' brings.

Your life and home is all you've got as a woman,why destroy it by being at loggerheads with your man?

Yes,the guy was wrong…he messed up big time….okay..,but, guess what?? its not your place to lash out at him rudely.A woman's place is the place of submission,without it,true beauty is lost.

Most women fail to understand that they got committed to a cause the day they married their man. It is an established fact that from that moment on, falling short of submissiveness is totally unacceptable..
Being submissive is an aspect a whole lot of us  have to focus on and obtain PhD degrees,especially in this modern world where we
have a lot of educated wives..smiles...

A submissive wife is one who makes a choice not to resist her husband’s will.  That is not to say that she cannot disagree with him or that she cannot express an opinion.

Indeed the submissive wife is, by definition, a strong woman who will usually have her own opinions which may differs to that of her husband.

Can she express them?
Of course she can, and indeed it might often be wrong for her not to express them since she is, after all, supposed to be her husband’s helper, not his slave or doormat.

Expressing her opinions and giving advice and suggestions will often be a valuable part of the help that she gives her husband.

Here s a typical picture of a submissive woman:

WAKING UP:

She wakes up before her family to get ready for the day ahead. She’ll get dressed first so her husband wakes up to an attractive, well-groomed wife who is calm and in control. She’ll then make sure the house is tidy and pack bags and lunches for her children and her husband.she prepares breakfast for her family so as they wake up they can eat a healthy and delicious meal to start the day.

At no time does she seem disorganized, rushed, or lose her temper.

Her husband’s clothes for the day are washed, ironed and hung up ready for him. After breakfast, just before he leaves for work, she leaves him with a kiss and a smile, telling him to have a great day.

MORNING:

Once her husband leaves for work and the children are at school,she uses  her morning to run errands vital to the smooth running of the family. She’ll drop off and pick up dry cleaning, grocery shop, attend to her own needs like hair and nails and have everything done by lunch time.she never  shops for the home  while her husband is at home with the children. She’ll make sure all errands are completed while he is at work so that when he gets home they spend that time together. He doesn’t need to help her with any errands or with any of the cooking and cleaning, unless he wants to. She runs the house smoothly and efficiently, leaving their time together as peaceful and as harmonious as possible.

AFTERNOON

After a quick lunch she spends the afternoon tidying the house and preparing for her family to return. The cleaning is done and dinner is started. If she does any work from home she will get that done in the afternoon as well.

If she works outside of home,then she makes every effort to get home before her husband  and get it all set before his return.

EARLY EVENING

Once her children return home, they are given snacks and asked to do homework. All of the children’s activities and homework are completed by the time her husband comes home so he can relax after a long day.

When her husband arrives home he walks into a clean house, receives a warm welcome from his wife who is happy to see him and spends some time relaxing while she finishes up dinner. During dinner she attends to all of her family’s needs and after dinner will clean up so her husband can spend time with their children.

EVENING

She organizes for the children to go to bed each evening. Her husband may wish to read them a bedtime story but she will dress them for bed, supervise baths and the brushing of teeth and ultimately tuck them in. The rest of the evening is spent with her husband. That time is spent talking, discussing issues and not fighting. The real skill of being a submissive wife is ensuring all communication with her husband is as happy and as calm as possible.

Disagreements are quickly deflated by her, not necessarily through giving in to her husband’s point of view but by being willing to do what makes him happy. She has to prioritize his happiness over her own and does this willingly, with no expectation from him.

BEDTIME

Sex is an experience of love and is shared as often as her husband desires. She is happy to have sex as often as he likes and will always do her best to make it an amazing experience. Sex with a submissive wife is pretty awesome and because their relationship is harmonious, her pleasure is just as important as his.

Each evening ends in a happy and fulfilled state with a kiss and the expression “I love you”.

So, what do you think it would be like to be a, submissive wife for just one day, if not a lifetime?

Build your home and enjoy the beauty attached to being a submissive wife.

Lovely weekend ahead Beautiful Ladies...
**Cheers.