Being friendly....

Just like the kids;simple,real and sincere.

The Holy bible teachings dictates specifically that we all should love our enemies as we love ourselves(Matt 5:43-44).

Now, in understanding these words ,only then can we agree that one attribute we must imbibe to attract the relationships we desire is :Being Friendly...

Meeting your life long partner or steps to discovering the hidden treasure in your quest may just  be embedded in this
simple act of friendliness..

Let me tell you a short story...

There was a time i needed to attend my best friend’s wedding, and she had sent  my fabric through this guy(a friend of hers).

It was a sunny day and this guy had called me to fix our meeting point.
Getting there, I called because I saw no sign of him

He picked up and told me he was in a car parked by the junction. The moment I saw him, introduction and exchange of pleasantries was quick as I moved to sit in his car without being asked.

With a smile on my face,“Please open up and let me in , for this sun is too hot” were my words as he smiled,and got the doors unlocked.

We got talking just at that point like we've met before. I got my fabric and, he offered to drop me off eventually.

We became good friends after that fateful day and his confession later to me was "my friendliness and the way I jumped into his car had  actually tripped him"…

Now, as simple as this story is, it has brought unimaginable happiness and joy to my life.

How? Am sure every reader already concluded I married this guy **Smiles....Actually No I didn't...

 This very guy introduced me to my husband.

Now Imagine if I was very formal and all ready to get what I came for (as I could barely stand the hotness of the sun) and probably left. He may have just been one of the very many people I have met in my entire life who wouldn’t have the opportunity to know me pretty well to the extent of recommending me as an asset his friend must keep! **wink

 I may still be wondering ,praying and hoping where my man would come from.

How interesting it is to see the very little things,become the solid rock of our lives.

If you ask me, I'll say...Pay attention to every tiny detail, most especially to being friendly.

Your lifelong partner may be that one sitting very close to you at the moment

.He may not look like the picture of the man in your head, but he may possess the qualities of the very man you’ve  got in your head.

Stay friendly while I catch y'all later with  more.

To your Happiness…**cheers🍸