Fake Identity...

Ever since My dad got his smart phone, his display message reads: A lieing friend is worse than an enemy.

Thinking about these words brought about deep thoughts..

The truth be said, There are thousands of relationships built on falsehood and infatuation..

You find some spouses lieing about their identities,just for trivial and baseless gains..
It may interest you to know that anything based on falsehood can never be right,and can never ever be productive.

At first, it may appear real and the sweetest, but, give it time by being watchful and the true colors will be revealed.

Why fake your identity just to ‎get attention?

The world needs real people. Believe me that's the first step to rebuild our countries,homes,relationships and every of our involvement that requires solid foundation..
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You are unique and great just the way you are. Even if you make mistakes all along, set it right by accepting who you have become ensuring you make an effort to improve rather than moving on in that same direction.

Be Adviced:: Nothing ever happens by chance.

If you are in a relationship where you have a spouse whom you have lied to about so many things ‎,set up a meeting with him or her and be open about yourself as it will bring you nothing but long lasting union.

Note: if you are in with the right person, you will be forgiven..but if not,you might loose the relationship. If you ask me, I'd say both ways, you win!.

Did you just ask why?
Its obviously because you did the right thing of course.
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Your reason for lieing and portraying a fake identity shouldn't be because you love him/her.‎
Infact you're only doing more harm than good..If i were you ,I'd rather come clean at all times so my heart can be at peace and my conscience can be justified...

Be real to yourself,to the people around you and you will attract the right love and people into your life. (Word!!!)

Imagine a situation where you found out you have been involved with a wrong person all along and change is not his/her watch word..
I suggest you don't just run, Sprint for your life cos you are in the wrong relationship.

I can imagine the thoughts in you as you read this...You're wondering ; how do I know if I am in a fake relationship with all this sharp guys and smart ladies all around.?

Well,I'll give u a tip now and probably share more guidelines with you later...

First ask yourself, who are his /her friends,families,siblings etc?
If you are in an isolated relationship(Not seeing anyone around him or her)  open your eyes and wake up from slumber as no one is without a relationship.

This is  brief.....Yes, but, am sure some important food for thoughts featured in it.

I urge you guys to be diligent, ensure proper assessment of yourself and your relationship.
If you do that, Guess what??? You'll be just fine!‎
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Happy weekend peeps.
                         **Cheers.‎
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