Are you comparing your relationship with others?

Before you choose and decide to be with your partner,I believe you have your reasons,and those reasons are just quite peculiar to you.

Relationships with whomever you ve chosen to be with is a matter of Choice and it’s a beautiful thing.

At different stages  of our lives,these reasons differ,what may be good in the sight of A might be different in the sight of B. and for every relationships you end up in, it may or may not be right.

Comparing your relationship with some others is a sure way to getting back single again..,and as a married couple,it’s a sure way to destroy your relationship.

Contentment is another word that goes with this very subject.

Being content with your man; who he is,how he is,what he is,is the number one way to enjoy your relationship.

Your man may not eat right(he probably makes noise when chewing )and you probably don’t like it.but you sure have other things about him you love,and then you watch Mrs B ‘s man,eating in a very cultured manner and nicely and then you get back home wishing and complaining your man should eat like Mrs B’ s man.

Hmmm…..if you'd ask me, I'd say you re signing up for trouble. Especially with the way you re going about it. You've completely allowed the picture you saw to consume you. Now, instead of appreciating and loving your partner regardless,you are constructing a bridge between you two.

You could teach him in a subtle way and be patient with the results

Now,that's just one example out of a million .

Learn to appreciate your partner,Regardless.

Find a partner whom you can stick with despite his or her shortcomings and stick to your relationship .

No one is ever like you or your partner,and no one will ever be. So, appreciate what you ve got ,because no one else got it in the whole world. Take pride in being with this person and make the world jealous of the treasure in your hands.

Note: what works in the other relationship you're envying may not just work in yours. So, don’t look to compare as you really don’t need to. Everything you need to make your own relationship right is in both of you.

It’s a supercool  ‘weather for (married)two’ atmosphere in the city of lagos right now…smiles..

(except you re fasting or at work)*wink

Have fun People

To your success




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