Building a Strong Foundation is necessary for an Exceptional,Long lasting Relationship

                                   

Does it ever cross your mind that having a solid foundation is key in any relationship?

I can go on and on about theories of how this can be achieved but, then again,there's one basic factor that must be considered in order to enjoy an exceptional relationship.

It is the God factor.

Having a proper understanding of who God is can transform anyone or any relationship.

Note: You cannot have a successful home or relationship without God's involvement as God is LOVE.

Now, as simple as this message appears, it's understanding can transform any home or individual.

Love has a whole lot of description,but considering a few from 1corinth 13:4-11 ,Love is kind and patient,covers a multitude of sin,keeps no record of wrongs,endures long ,does not insist on its own rights or its own ways,pays no attention to a suffered wrong and so on......

Take for example our dear Tiwa savage, in fairness, I think she should have gotten in her closet to meditate more on these thoughts about Love before coming out to say all that she said about her husband.

Being joined to her husband was a life contract she signed ,I mean i watched her utter those words online about her marriage being over and I cried for her.

Tiwa & Tee Billz

Yes, her husband said a whole lot of nasty things about her and made the whole situation a real mess  but, if she had come out to openly declare her love, not to mention offering her forgiveness regardless of all the pain and hurt in her heart,exalting him instead,  rather than exposing more of his shortcomings,wouldnt the world have seen her truly as a gifted and submissive woman full of wisdom ?or better still not come out at all??

we have to understand its not the world we owe our life or marriage, it is God.

We need to always look out for what God thinks and not what the world thinks or would think.

The very first and important question we need to ask ourselves before getting into any relationship is,

Why am i into this relationship?

She did right by acknowledging  her mistake and to  mention she knew all these would happen.
Now, the question i personally would have loved to ask is why did she marry him in the first place?

'Why am i in this relationship' I believe is a frequent  question you need to ask yourself over and over again.

Knowing the reason of a course better helps you in the journey ahead as you're guided to fulfill your purpose too. Proper understanding helps you to define your relationship and know it's essence.

Derailed foundation needs to be reset. God's involvement should be topmost of concern as it is required more than anything else for a solid and lasting relationship.

Prayer changes things and works wonders. I dont ever believe its the end yet until individuals or homes experiencing struggles DECIDE to win.

Tiwa and TeeBliz, My prayers are with you,I love you Guys,and I wish you two the best in your journey of love!
Your marriage is worth fighting for Tiwa,Dont give in to defeat,stop listening to what the world says and make God proud!You've got what it takes and i believe in you.

Hey guys, why don't we carefully learn from these stories and be guided. It's not everything that glitters that’s gold. So, choose wisely and let your decisions be on things that would last!

And do not forget to drop your comments.

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Enjoy your weekend

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